A little Lent this Valentine’s; a little Valentine’s this Lent

Valentine’s Day precedes Ash Wednesday and the beginning of Lent by only four days this year. What a contrast in these two days. Valentine’s Day is a day when many couples celebrate their love with cards, flowers and gifts—gifts often in some form of chocolate. (If you eat equal amounts of white chocolate and dark …

The seven habits of highly effective marriage partners

What to do after the wedding?  What happens after writing thank you notes, storing the wedding dress, returning tuxes, making photo selections, and editing the wedding DVD? After the wedding, a marriage happens, that’s what. I usually ask people who want me to perform their wedding why they want to get married. In my 29 …

Religion gone wrong

“I just want to say that I love Allah.” These aren’t the words of one devotee of Islam peacefully whispering to a fellow follower during a quiet moment of worship. Instead it is a statement made by Amine el Khalifi—formerly Christopher Lee Cornell, an unemployed deejay—to the judge at his sentencing of 30 years in prison after pleading …