Note To Self

We had just unpacked our suitcases from a weeklong trip to Oklahoma. Lori and I now divide our stay there; she spends most of her time with her mom in Edmond, and I drive to Altus to be with my brother. Lori’s mom has dementia, and my brother has ALS. Neither of those maladies gets …

Hello 2025: All Will Be Well

We’ve heard the New Year quips: “The closing of one chapter is the beginning of another,”  “Endings precede new beginnings,” and most recently,  “Goodbye, 2024, Hello 2025.” Here’s another one, though not specific to a new year: “All will be well, and all will be well, and all manner of thing shall be well.” It’s a …

The Only List That Matters

It’s Christmas, and the struggle to stay off the “naughty” list and cling to the  “nice” list is over. Parents who have used Santa’s “naughty/nice” list as a means of behavioral control must now utilize another method to reward good conduct and punish the bad. Various websites exist to aid parents who use the naughty/nice …

When Love Walks By

In a recent interview with the Wall Street Journal, 85-year-old, award-winning actor Ian McKellen was asked about his pet peeves. “It baffles me,” he said, “why so many people these days, if they’re sitting in public, they’ll be talking to their iPhone…I want to stop them and say, ‘Do you realize the love of your life …