The Assurance of Heaven: Good Enough for Now and Forever

A tear appears in my brother’s eye. It wells up before spilling over, trickling down his cheek as I  kiss him on the forehead to say goodbye. He lies immobile in his bed, ALS having attacked him relentlessly, rendering his muscles useless, reducing his voice to a whisper. Soon, he will be unable to speak.   …

Letting Them Fly

It’s been years now, but I distinctly recall how Lori answered the phone when I called to check on her. “I’m doing better this time,” she said, “I’m not crying…at least not much.” Two days before, we had left our youngest daughter, Madi, at her apartment, where she would attend her first year of college. …

Ancient Wisdom for Contemporary Parenting

Many parents have grown frustrated with the “gentle approach” to parenting. A new trend has emerged based on the idea of allowing children to experience the natural consequences of their actions.  The slang acronym for this style of parenting is “FAFO,” short for “F**Around and Find Out.” So, for instance, if a kid refuses to …